Saturday 21 July 2012

All hand on baby


Everyone wants to touch the baby, especially during pregnancy, but not one in each application. If you have not noticed, the minute you start to show everyone a different kind will be ready for you. The abdomen becomes this magnet for hands and everyone wants to face. It does not matter if you're walking into a store, sitting in a restaurant or walking on your own street, someone is bound to start rubbing on.




You are not the only person being driven nuts this, a look with your husband. Of course, it seems that the military, but deep inside he may be willing to make light of someone. Talk to your husband and see if he wants. Even if you do not mind, can you not like the hand of another man for you. He could not care if she was a woman touches your body, but he could remember of a man. Think how you would feel if you see a woman, rubbing his hands on the chest of your partner. Maybe you two can reach an agreement, after all you have to touch all the baby?

Your belly, clothed or not is a personal space, surely someone can get inside you, but welcome. But to actually touch someone else is kind should ask before you do and respect your response. If you do not want them touching it, tell them. While some women do not mind the attention, there are other women do not want belly touched, let alone that they are displayed around the world to see. Maybe they have gained 10 pounds and feel conscious enough about it, or they can be a very private person.

Children may also want to touch the abdomen, most often it is because they know someone who had a baby and they were able to do so. If you do not like it, let them know. If you do not mind, you might want to get your hands on your stomach. Children tend to get really excited stomach and smack as they try to do this.

Forget the belly rubbing for a moment, make sure you do not have people who love to dig in it. Suffering most of all, and half the time they do not get it. Try explaining to them that although you can be a pain. They can not do it because they want to see the baby move and when you dance, they just think it is part of the reaction pregnancy. They may think twice before doing it again with you or anyone else.

If nothing else to work and you have to be polite to let people know that your stomach is limited, so do not hesitate to get sick husband or start swatting. We gave you fair warning. Do not feel bad if you smack a lift up your shirt during the day. This is a normal reaction and people really need to think twice before doing so. They will not do it if you are not pregnant.

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